Three Conditions to Acquire Excellent Manners

This is one example of the excellent manners with which Allah (Taala) has equipped his Messenger (p.b.u.h.). He described him as,

"Verily, You (Muhammad) are on an exalted standard on character." (68:4)

Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her) described him as, "His character was just (a reflection of) the Quran." (Muslim, Abu Dawood, Ahmad)

Such excellent character cannot be attained without three conditions:

1. The foundation must be good. If one has a rough and dry nature, it will be hard for him to submit to this (excellence of character) through knowledge, will, or practice. On the other hand, a mild and smooth nature will be ready and willing to receive the plowing and the seeds (to prepare it for character excellence).

2. The soul must be strong and capable of conquering calls of laziness, transgression, and desire. Those matters contradict perfection, and souls which cannot defeat them will always be defeated and conquered.

3. (One must possess) a discerning knowledge of the truth of matters, enabling one to put them in the rightful position, and to distinguish between flash and cancer - between glass and jewels.

If these three qualities are present in a man, and Allah's facilitation helps him, then he will be among those whom the best (Husnaa) has been decreed and for whom Allah's care has been secured.

By: Imam Ibn ul Qayyim al Jawziyyah

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